I'm in college. I don't want to date until I'm out of this year because it is crucial for my career.
He just asked me. I don't want to date him. I think he likes me but I'm not positive. He knows I don't want to date anyone right now. I even made him invite another person to the movies before I agreed. I said yes to go because we are really good friends.
If if a guy asked a girl to the movies is it definitely a date?
Most Helpful Guy
Its 50/50, depends on the guy. I asked a female friend to the movies once, and it was purely because I just wanted to hangout with her before heading off to college. My best advice can be this, go to the movies once with him, and see how he acts, It doesn't hurt to just go, see what he does or if he makes a move. If he doesn't make a move, then chances are, he is just your friend and wants to hangout, if he does make a move, well then you have your answer there.
Personally, as someone who has had female friends, I have been on the other side and gone through this a LOT. I have lost female friends because of this same type of scenario though since I'm a guy. They think every nice thing I do, every chivalrous thing, every time I try and ask them to hangout is just me wanting to get into their pants. It hurts, because some of these people I thought were really good friends, just didn't trust me, and kicked me aside. This goes both ways though, as opposite sex friends are always hard to see intentions unless you actually hangout with them.
Give him a chance, find out his intentions, and maybe this will show you he is either A: a male friend you can now hangout with, without the worry of getting romantic and just having fun instead, or B: see that his intentions are more, and set him in his place.
Hope this helps :)0
Most Helpful Girl
I go to movies one on one with friends (boys as well as girls) fairly often. Also, brunch, dinners, etc.
- - - Honestly, he knows. You've told him, so if he creates a fantasy in his head about it. That's all him, not you.
Just because he's a dude doesn't mean he doesn't like to be alone at movies either. lol0