So i'm a 18 year old , tall girl and i get a lot of crap for being into video games , watching wrestling. Not doing the typical thing like shopping and going to getting my nails done. I enjoy playing sports and just horsing around probably because growing up with brothers i was used to it but why do i get so much crap for not wanting to girly things?
Most Helpful Guy
Maybe you just don't know the right guys!! I like women that are being 'equals' and trying things that aren't 'girl things'!!
Ever shot guns? That's my go-to with a woman that wants to be more than just a 'little girl'!!
I LOVE it, when she says she wants to shoot something BIGGER than the little.22s I start her with!!
As a woman, I think that YOU need to decide who you want to HEAR!! There will always be haters, or people of both genders saying you can't or shouldn't being a 'Lady'.
What if being a 'Lady' is different now, at least to some of us guys?
For me, a 'Lady' can shoot guns, and hit targets!! She can wear what she likes, and get dirty, maybe wanting to know how to change the oil in her car! She does what she wants, and likes, and doesn't care about the OLD social stigmas that are just past BS!!
But she can also clean up, nicely, and wear a really elegant dress to a wedding, or some social event!!
You are only bound by your fear of challenging the OLD NORMS!! They are fading, and now is when you can be everything you want to be!!1
Most Helpful Girl
Who cares what others say or think? just be yourself, don't go changing to get guys or girls or friends or anyone. Be true to yourself and surround yourself with people that respect you for who you are and your individuality and eventually, the right person will come along and like you for you.4
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