Serious question: If I have to approach a shy guy I like first whom I suspect likes me back, will it always be this way in a relationship?

I've always been told that if a guy likes you enough, he'll approach you no matter how shy he is. I understand now that that's not the case lol. However, I'm afraid that if I take that initiative step, it'll always have to be that way in the relationship (i. e. having to text/call first, plan dates, etc.). Is that true for shy guys? Or is the "shyness" just a temporary thing and you'll be more forward once you get to know the girl? Girls, your experiences are welcome too!


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  • No, of course not. Don't be silly. Just because you initiated the first step, it doesn't mean it will be that way throughout the entire relationship.