What's the best way to ask a lady out - subtle, or blunt?

So as the title says, is it better to be subtle about it, like "Hey did you want to grab a coffee on the weekend?" or just to be blunt and straight up, as in, "Hey, would you like to go on a date on the weekend?"

  • Subtle
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  • Blunt
    Vote B
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Most Helpful Guy

  • Blunt. Don't listen to what girls say, deep down they prefer it if you show some guts.

    But you do need some social skills for timing as well as not overdo things towards more insecure/shy girls.


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What Girls Said 1

  • It honestly depends on how well you know this certain lady. If you are just meeting her for the first time then keep it subtle. But if its a long brewing friendship turning into something more- blunt is the best way that works for most women. That way they know you aren't just asking them to "hang out".


What Guys Said 1

  • Subtle