Dating Someone Twice My Age!

I met someone this weekend, and from the start we had a great vibe going. Neither one of us could tell that we had such a big age difference. I'm 23, and he's 41. When we had our first conversation over the phone, he kept saying "How old are you again? I can't believe that you're in your're so wise, mature and articulate" (not to toot my own horn but it is significant info). He doesn't have a problem with it, but I can't help but feel a bit on edge because he's so much older than me. I feel like my maturity can only take me so far, and he may either (a) take advantage of my age and just try to fool around with a younger woman, or (b) want to move really fast because he doesn't have much time left to reproduce.

What do you see as some problems/advantages of such a huge age gap?


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  • We are 12 years apart and from different cultures.

    Life is interesting and challenging.

    Children at an older age for men is no big deal.

    I say go for it.


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