I am sorry that happened to you, that's a bad feeling and rude thing to do. I've noticed that it happens more often than not these days. Guys have faded away from me without any real reason (although, I suspect they just lost interest). Best to move on to either finding someone better or to try some more self improvement.
Yes its so rude and makes me feel like she never cared about me to begin with. I don't know why people do this kinda thing, you should at least have the decency to break up to the persons face. Its just been so hard because I liked her so much and thought she did too. Out of no where she just stopped talking to me and it crushed me because I thought that was something she would never do. I just have a hard time talking to girls and I thought everything with this relationship fell together perfectly, it took me this long to get one girl and so now I'm worried I'll never find someone again.
I am not a fan of the ghosting method, and prefer face to face as well. Unless the person was violent or something, then best to call to end it. Sometimes people just aren't feeling it, I know I've had to tell a few guys that I didn't think we were on the same page and I wasn't interested. It's very difficult to do, but the right thing. I've only had one guy do the same to me, and I respect him for it. It also helps with closure, which is something that you aren't finding right now. You are still really young, so maybe for now it's best to take a break and heal before trying again. Men (some, maybe even a lot) tend to fair better as they age.
Yes that's the problem, I have no closure. Obviously since its been nearly 2 months since I've even talked to her we aren't together but the fact that there was no break up just leaves this weird feeling and I don't know what to think. Its just not how I imagined my first relationship going at all. I do need time to heal, the thing is over 2 months nothings changed and she's still pretty much all I think about so I don't know maybe I need to find someone else to fully heal. Also being in a relationship (before the crappy ending) made me realize how amazing it is to be with someone, so I don't really want to wait as I age I'd much rather find a serious relationship younger. Not talking marriage right now obviously but someone who really likes me and wants to spend a lot of time together, kinda like what I thought this one would be like originally. But right now I'm worried it won't happen, I guess I'm just a mess right now.
Yes, I'm not sure why some people dip off. Could be busy or they forget, or maybe they found someone else. Things happen which is why it doesn't bother me too much. A head's up is always nice, though. If I was actually in a relationship with someone exclusively and there was a lack in communication, then I'd be a bit worried.
I am similar, I don't really care. I just talk to other people or do something else. But a friend has been contacting me and he's always upset when someone doesn't respond the same day. I was just curious how others felt. Thank you for the response!
I have a friend like that. lmao. The 'talks' she's given me. It won't change, I see it and get busy, then forget.Semi bad at responding to messages. Very, very few exceptions.
I've done that a few times where I read the text or message but couldn't respond, then forget about it haha. It's not intentional though.
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I'm sorry that makes you feel bad.
You are correct, I am not 100 years old.
How old then?