I am wondering because I am a 19 year old girl, who has been labeled as a lesbian, too many times to count. I'd like to say that I have two sides to me: a very masculine, boyish side, and a very feminine, girly side. I'd say 65% of the time, I'm boyish and masculine and 35% I'm the other bit. I like boys, that is for sure. I always have and I'm certain I always will. I've never had any doubts about my sexuality. I know I am straight. At times I definitely feel that when I dress and "behave" like a boy, it's kind of a turn off to guys. I've only had 2 serious boyfriends, and they never seemed to mind, but it was also because they got to see that other side of me. I've been single for quite some time now, and I'm ready to dive back into the dating pool. I like who I am, masculine or not, and I don't plan on changing myself for anyone, but I'm definitely concerned that my masculine appearance and personality will drive guys off. ThoughtS?
Most Helpful Guy
if i was asked out by a girl like that and she was my type and has the beauty look i like, yes, i would date her0
Most Helpful Girl
being 'masculine' has nothing to to with being a lesbian. sexual orientation is nothing the same as personality.
your personality will turn off some people. everyones personality will turn off some people. thats a fact. an no one should be with someone who doesn't appreciate them. since you're not planning on changing yourself-which is good. only thing left to know is people calling you a lesbian are idiots.
out of curiosity, what is it that you consider to be 'masculine' about your behavior. most behaviors overlap anyhow-few people are 100% one way- so i can't imagine you can really seem extreme.