Do you feel more 'complete' as a person when you are in a relationship as opposed to single life? Or the other way around or no difference?
- Yes I feel more complete and confidentVote A
- No I feel less complete and insecureVote B
- No difference reallyVote C
- OtherVote D
Most Helpful Girl
No and yes. I didn't feel incomplete before but being with my partner has opened up new sides of myself that I didn't know we're there and I feel like an even better, truer version of myself than I was before he became part of my life. My focus has also shifted in that I no longer think about most things from an individual mindset - it's all about the "we", not "me", if that makes any sense.3
Most Helpful Guy
Absolutely NOT, you either are already a secure, confident and happy person on the inside and that you don't "need" somebody else to "complete" you and constantly give you approval and desire to make you feel you are "complete", "worthy", "happy", etc. That whole somebody else "completes" you whether that they should, could or would "complete" you is another big lie and myth if anything.
When people that are very unhappy on the inside for whatever reason get into relationships it will eventually affect the outcome of their relationships, and it could make things much worse when the split or breakup happens.1