Is it wrong if i dont want to ask him out bcs people will gossip about it (saying im cheap or whatever)?
So how to do it without being direct or obvious? Or maybe how you make him like me too?
Most Helpful Guy
Just make the invitation to hang out later with just you and him very, very casual.
Don't make it a big deal and it won't be. Like, "Hey, wanna go to [insert place] on [insert day]?"
The other way without asking him out is to usually flirt and really show obvious signs of interest, touching him a lot and paying very close attention to everything he says and complimenting his looks and so forth.
But if you actually want to avoid being teased if he doesn't like you back, I actually think the casual invitation to hang out makes it more ambiguous as to whether you really like him or not before he agrees.
When you do heavy flirting, it'll often make it obvious to everyone that you do like him while still keeping the ball entirely in his court to ask you out or not.1
Most Helpful Girl
Begin your own Beguine here, dear, with being Friendly And... Friends.
Then when you See that Things may be Getting a Bit more 'Obvious' on Both ends, but perhaps he is a Shy Guy who has not made the Move to Ask you Out... Ask him if he would Like to Hang out Sometime.
Good luck. xx0