I can't seem to find one girl that I'm attracted to that doesn't already have a boyfriend. And i don't know if I should just give up because it already feels like women don't notice me. But all the ones the I try and find confidence to talk to already have a boyfriend and I'm not into all the home wrecking shit. I don't understand why its so hard for me to find a girl when every girl is taken.
Most Helpful Girl
It sounds like to me its all about looks and physical appearance that is the problem. You have expectations of what you want in a girl physically and she is already taken. Yet you could be ignoring girls who may not be all attractive to you that would make a great girlfriend.0
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Most Helpful Guy
Since your confidence is shaken, now is not the time to approach girls. Take a knee. Collect yourself. You're approaching from a position of weakness and it has to stop.
Stop focusing on getting girls and focus on owning your domain. Expect girls to have boyfriends. Expect girls to have an excuse to not be into you. Same shit. It shouldn't matter.
By focusing on owning your domain, you hone your craft. You become someone to be desired in the world, for more reasons than just being a boyfriend.
When you expand your skillset and master your knowns, your domain subsequently expands and women will inevitably enter it. Now, YOU are in control. You are in a position of power. To be in this position means women answer to you, nice vice versa.
Trust me, chasing doesn't lead to shit. You're better off being a bad man with gravitas.1