What should I do about my boyfriend liking other women's pics on social media?

I notice a few attractive women my boyfriend follows on IG. These are women he knows (local). Any pic they post of their face, he likes it. If it's some random pic, he doesn't. Go figure. I wouldn't have an issue if these were some unattainable people like models or something. But I feel like he's trying to get their attention. We have only been dating for 4 months so I don't want to ruin the relationship by bringing it up but it bothers me. :( is this somewhat normal for guys to do? Does it not necessarily mean anything?

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  • For now focus on building a connection between you two. Lets worry about bigger things right

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  • You get over it and realise it means nothing, it's just social media.

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  • This is why I stopped messing with social media

    My girlfriend started fretting about petty shit

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  • Get over it why don't you do the same thing look at a bunch of men if he does it you do it too.

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  • How'd this boyfriend impress you in the first place?

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  • maybe you should post some face pics and see if he likes those. if not that be a red flag.

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  • What to do about it? Get off of social media.

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    • Boom. Nailed it.

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    • Such an action is based on insecurity because of the fear of LOSS - it's almost as if you're blatantly LOOKING for a sign as not to trust your partner, or a sign that your partner may leave you.

      You're wise not to have social media 😂, I can respect that, so well done, you're a couple of steps ahead. I just use Instagram, I barely use Facebook & Twitter though. Thanks for the wisdom once again. 👍 :]

    • @GoldenWing True. I mean I hardly use social media myself but for those that do, I think they need to stop kidding themselves that their SO won't interact with their friends of the other gender.

  • No, that is not normal and it is disrespectful.

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  • Do you do the same?

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  • why would you need to do anything about it?

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  • danger is always there

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  • doesn't mean anything you're over thinking it

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  • He is a player!

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  • What do you think you should do?

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  • WOW, why does everyone make a HUGE deal out of LIKING SOCIAL MEDIA PICTURES? Like, JESUS. It's kind of just hit me how much people don't treat this like astrology.

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    • Astrology is awesome, ok.

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    • Agree though. It doesn't have a basis for belief.

    • @GoldenWing I don't know my time of birth. :/
      And my experience with horoscopes and stuff has largely been "that's absolutely nothing like me" most of my life.

  • Already trying to control him. SMH. Women all about control fellas. If you value freedom you know what to do.

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  • Do you like guys' pictures? Same concept.

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