So I recently broke up with my ex boyfriend (it's been a month) and I was starting to feel lonely and stuff so I went on a dating app and met up with this guy from there and he asked me to be his girlfriend 2 days later and I said yes. Well now that I think about it I don't wanna seem shallow or anything but I'm just not physically attracted to him but i don't wanna be rude and say that so what should I do? The only reason I even dated him was as much as I hate to say it was for a rebound but that's not right and it's not fair to him. So what should I do?
Most Helpful Guy
Physical attraction is essential.
End things with this guy sooner rather than later to minimize the upset.3
Most Helpful Girl
You tell him you do not wish to date him. If he asks why, you tell him that you aren't attracted to him.
Here the golden rule applies, do onto others what you wish done to you. Would you want someone to continue to see you if the only reason they were still seeing you was because they were too scared to hurt your feelings by telling you that they did not wish to see you?
Here common senses also applies - eventually you are going to hurt this guy's feelings. Eventually you are going to have to end it with him or make it so he ends it with you. Either way, his feelings are going to be hurt.
It is better to do it now than later. It is better for him since it does not prolong the inevitable. It is better for you since you can exit with some grace and dignity for doing the right thing at the right time. You lose both grace and dignity if you wait too long.
If you aren't into someone and do not expect that to change, then let them go. You are not doing them any favors by still dating them. If anything, you are causing damage. So let them go.
That is my advice. :)