So say you know a girl or guy who used to have friends with benefits with one person or more , would that turn you off and make you think twice about dating them? or avoid dating such a person all together?
- Yes - Will dateVote A
- Will date, but be very careful and keep an eye on themVote B
- No - Won't dateVote C
Most Helpful Girl
What you're calling "friends with benefits" has been the way every single relationship in my life -- including my marriage, which is both ecstatically happy and amazingly well-functioning beyond my wildest dreams -- has started.
To be honest, I *couldn't* start a relationship in any other way. Sexual compatibility is just WAY too important to me. And sexual communication teaches you so many things about yr partner, within minutes or even seconds, that you'd otherwise take months or even years to discover. So... the sooner the better.
So, obviously my answer would be yes, because by the time I'd actually want to date the guy seriously, his "friends with benefits" would be ME. <31
Most Helpful Guy
they had a friends with benefits in the past? yes i'd still date them1