So my 22 year old boyfriend cancels dates on me after we had plan our dates for weeks , only because his mom needs help or wants to see him , yes he is a momma's boy. I understand that mothers need their sons help and it's sweet because right there it's shows that he loves and respects his mom , it's been said how a man treats his mom its the way he will treat his wife. But I dislike the fact that he always cancels on me just to spent time with mommy I mean come on this man is 22 years old , to old to be attached and crying for mommy. I DON'T LIKE HIS MOM. Obviously she hates me she always makes faces at me never says hi and she ask me to hand her the ketchup and she did not say thank you , one time my boyfriend had the brilliant idea for his mom , me and him to have lunch at Dennys , after lunch my boyfriend and I had plans to go to the movies after he had mentioned it to his mom about it , she was oh sweet but I tough you were going to Walmart with me to get groceries , That really bothered me bur I kept my mouth shut than my boyfriend was like will make it up for some other time. Then it was our anniversary we were goin to fridays and made reservasions and his mommy has the wonderful idea to like his 10 year old bro for my boyfriend to babysit honestly I had nough I am now thinking about breaking up with him. Now I understand why teresita so many wife's that hate there mother in laws. Man would you ditch your girlfriend for mommy? Would a mans mom come first before his family and wife?
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LOL, totally agree with you! It also baffles me as why some guys puts their mom first. To a degree he should be, but there comes a time when your SO becomes more important. It becomes worse, like in your situation, when the mom also doesn't realize that one day the girlfriend will, "take over" looking after her son. Many moms feel threatened by this and have the attitude that you are "taking away her baby!" This is why she hates you for no good reason. For me personally, it is important to get along with the in-laws. Too much friction in your case and you would have to fight years of it should you stay together. I am not interested in friction, drama or stepping on egg shells to keep the peace. I would break up since he is obviously still putting mommy first and mommy would rather you not be there anyway!0