I am sure y all missed my questions haha
Anw... so look I have some minor confidence issues especially since I don t have much experience at all so I don t know what the guy expects in this and so on.
But I noticed this doesn t bother the guys I am with, I feel they get more protective instead of being turned off.
So lack of confidence doesn t always equate as a turn off? Or those dudes are just being nice and patient with me?
Most Helpful Guy
it's because of the way society teaches us how genders should work
guys need to be strong, have confidence, protect, don't show emotions, etc
that's why many girls are turned off by a lack of confidence with guys.
girls are considered weak in some aspects and need to be protected, they can show emotions, etc. Strong confidence is just nothing that is generally expected from girls, at least not from most guys. A lack of confidence also gives the interested guy the possibility to help her and maybe even get close to her like that.
So it's not really as much of a turn off for us, but it depends of course on a couple of things.1
Most Helpful Girl
Nope lack of confident isn't always a turn off. We're all different individuals and because of that we all have different preference. Its like some guys don't want to sleep with a virgin its not always because its a turn off but it might just the fact that they don't want to be the reason someone is in that much pain (AKA losing it) or they don't want to do most of the work since she'd be pretty clueless. Same thing with confidence.. some don't find it a then off but rather see it as you being able to trust them enough to let them in. Tho some might not want someone less confident because they are pretty much the same too (two wrongs don't make a right) No offence. So yeah when they get more protective they are actually being genuine. Hopefully i helped... Good luck.1