I like this guy, but he wants to spend too much time. I only get one day off work this week. We went out last night bowling with just him, and today he wants to spend all day with me. And he always wants to Skype/ text me. We just started dating, and im already feeling suffocated and I feel like I shouldn't feel this way. He is such a nice guy, but he says the biggest thing he wants out of a relationship is time. I want to sit at home be lazy and do my laundry and play my playstation, to be honest. And when classes start, what if I can't give him enough time?
Guy wants to spend too much time with me?
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Consider yourself lucky in a way, I wish my boyfriend would spend more time with me and put more effort into our relationship and show more eagerness to see me and take me bowling or something..
I get what you're saying though, it can feel suffocating when someone wants ALL your attention ALL of the time.
My advice would be to perhaps do a compromise of how much time you spend together, perhaps you put certain days aside to see each other or maybe agree to see each other every evening or afternoon if you don't want to spend the ENTIRE day with him. Me and my boyfriend see each other twice a week for 9 hours though I think it would be good to spend more time together, like not 24/7 but you know.
I think it's quite normal to be excited and want to spend lots of time together when in a relationship, especially at the beginning of one - when I started going out with my boyfriend I was messaging him on fb constantly and awaiting his reply and counting down the days until I was seeing him.
I always thought that kind of thing was normal, if you don't want to spend much time with this guy, are you sure you're really that into him?
He obviously really likes you and can't get enough of your time. I would just be really honest with him and tell him how you feel - but do it in a way where he knows you like him still.1
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