My boyfriend won't sleep with me and I don't understand why. We have been together 3 years now and live together. We have slept together twice in the past year and I've even bought new sexy underwear to which he rolled over said to stop being stupid. He then flirts infront of me with other girls and I've found out he has been having a secret friendship with one of my friends for the past few months. Initiating sex with her apprantly.- he denied this. What should I do? Is he cheating?
Most Helpful Guy
Obviously he isn't attracted anymore. His feelings have also changed and I highly suspect he is cheating. His flirting and secret affair is very insensitive, disrespectful and all I need to know that this relationship is over. If he does all these things why are you still with him? It won't change so you have a decision3
Most Helpful Girl
From what you wrote it's obvious he is cheating and to be blunt with you I think he doesn't want you sexually again but doesn't know how to say it to you because you guys are living together. My advice to you is for both of you to sit down and talk what the problem is. The problem could be such as maybe you don't dress like you use to, maybe your sex life is based mainly on missionary style I. e it lacks some kinky fuckery and lastly maybe he's tired of the relationship and doesn't want to be the one to initiate the breakup so he is trying to push you to brim so that the fault we be on you. It's just my thoughts so if you still love then try everything you can to make your relationship last, Goodluck.0