it could be due to anything... Just where you didn't feel like you could handle a full relationship or maybe you thought you wanted the moment to be perfect for when you start taking her out, or anything along those lines.
If if you could provide opinions and reasons that would be great
- Yes81% (43)
- No19% (10)
Girls can not vote on this poll
Most Helpful Guy
For either a girl or a guy, it's important to know that you'll be able to fully commit to a relationship (like a full-time job) if you're planning for the long haul. Otherwise, short-term dating or casual encounters are where it's at!
Personally, I have had to let go of one of my longest relationships because I simply did not have enough time/attention to offer her, and it stressed her out to the point that holding on did more damage than letting go. Working full time at a lab, studying for medical school, and balancing a long-term relationship contributed to one of the most stressful episodes in our lives. No matter how much I shifted my schedule around to accommodate, she never felt like she was the most important thing in my life despite how much I reassured her. The result was heartbreak: something that we both saw coming but refused to address early on in our relationship.
You might feel like you're missing out on something by not trying, but the responsible thing to do would be to date long-term when you have the time and resources to commit. Nobody wants to feel like your #100th priority in life, least of all your significant other.1