Hi. I have been getting really close to an old friend - so much so we are really close to dating. but I recently found out he's friends with someone who scared me badly when it comes to sex to the degree I am scared to actually have sex. I don't know what to do. I really like this guy but I can't ask him to give up a friend for me. I also can't tell him what his friend did cuz he would get really angry at him and I don't want to be responsible for that. please help.
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Damn, that's a tough situation you're in. You can't have a healthy relationship without being honest though, so I think you should tell him - and then tell him also that you don't want him beating the other guy up!0