I recently found out that a guy friend of mine may be interested in me as more than a friend. Now he is a lovely guy, and I think if we had a relationship it would be pretty damn good as our personalities are very compatible. Only problem is... at this stage anyway, I don't feel much physical attraction. He's not ugly and not exactly a turn off, but... I'm just not super attracted at this stage. However once we are old and wrinkly anyway does that stuff even matter, is it more important to build off our emotional compatibility, rather than someone who may I may be really attracted too but I just don't have the emotional connection with?
Should I still give it a chance and hope that my attraction grows (which has been known to happen to me in the past)? Or just don't even bother as it could just be seen as leading him on?
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It's kind of weird... I met my SO online, and I really iked his profile so I clicked yes before I even looked at his photos, and we chatted for a while. And I finally look at his photos and it's like "ok, not bad, not that good though...". And we meet in person and just being around him and how good it felt being with him, made me find him really attractive.
I get home, and naturally you're reminiscing and I'm thinking "was he really good looking?" I look at his photos again like "I don't know if I'm feeling it, there's no goddamn moment".
And then the next time I see him I just forget again and since then I don't doubt how gorgeous he is to me. Because he is. I guess the physical attraction grew and I realised how good looking he really is to me, once that emotional bond started.2
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