So a few weeks ago, my girlfriend turned 18.. and during these past few weeks as well, I've been very hard on myself. (Lack of confidence, no motivation, sadness etc..)
My girlfriend has left me while we were hanging out twice to go out with her friends, and again tonight, she asked me to go out because she cancelled with her friends.. then I said no, but you can come over? (To make me a little happier) Then all of a sudden she said she had plans with her friends to go out.. I texted her how I felt, and it just doesn't seem like she cares.. it truly hurts me.
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Is this the same girlfriend you've asked about in yr previous questions? Those are mostly a year old, so, can't tell.
If so, then, honestly, SHE might be PART of the problem! It might be unimaginable to think about ending yr relationship when you're already at a low point in yr life -- but, from the sound of things, *she* might actually be part of the reason WHY you're at a low point.
You should think long and hard about this.
Beyond that --
Sometimes, the two people in a couple just have vastly differing needs for things like socialization and "going out".
Basically, if you have a couple that consists of one extrovert and one introvert... those differences will exist.
If you are the introvert in such a couple, then, yr girl might *need* more socialization than you do -- and that's the sort of thing you should talk about, and agree on TOGETHER.
On the other hand, for her, the way to handle the situation is not simply to shove off and leave you sitting there wondering about things. Where is her empathy? Geez.1