My boyfriend of 2 years and I got back together a few months ago... we broke up for 3 months (original fight was over him not agreeing right away to sign a cohabitation agreement, as i own my condo and he lives there). Well now he is back living with me, and although I haven't asked AGAIN to sign the papers, he hasn't offered... is he using me just to try to attain half my property if we break up?
Most Helpful Guy
yeah i think he is , any guy with half a brain and knows what there doing would go for that. and while it is stupid its how most people play it safe when in a relationship. there needs come first there partners needs come 2and.
sure it should not be this way but its how some people watch out for themselves. i have never did this because i dont feel i have a right to something i had nothing to do with obtaining the property or whatever it is people want from there partner.
its almsot like a prenuptial agreement but it works for non married couple. it takes a lot of trust to sign something like that and hardly anyone trusts there partner that much.
Most Helpful Girl
I'm still basically a child, but I suggest you show him whose boss. If it's YOUR property, he either complies or gets lost.
If he is a potato couch kind of person who lazes around and gets no work done, that's a major hint to if he's using you. Studies have shown that relationships that break off but come together again are less likely each time to stick. So I think he may be using you, but you know him best; however don't make excuses for him- look at the facts and then based on those facts, make you decision. GIrl power!0