my boyfriend and I are 21. We've been dating for a year.
We have a long distance relationship and he is coming up to visit me.
I currently live live with my older sister and her husband and attending university nearby.
I'm excited to see my boyfriend and when I mentioned it to my sister she said we couldn't sleep together and that he would have to sleep downstairs on a air mattress. She said she's doing it because she doesn't believe in sleeping together before getting married and she's just trying to give me advice.
Im upset because I personally don't believe in that. I feel like I am old enough to do what I want. Even if I regret it, that's on me. I don't like being told what to do because it makes me feel like I'm in high school still.
I am almost fully supporting myself. I pay for rent, food, gas, and my parents pay for my tuition.
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I don't think its wrong to sleep with your boyfriend if your in college and in a relationship with him , however you are living at your sisters house and I could understand why they wouldn't want you bringing guys home and having sex with them there , its just not really the right place for that. I also don't know how close the rooms are to each other and potential noise and other issues such as shared bathrooms0