OK so I found this woman on plentyoffish and she accepted my request to go out... And this is the first time for me dating. Well for me I am thinking of going to Earl of Sandwich Restaurant and miniature golfing. But I kind of want a second opinion especially with the activity. Also should we take separate vehicles? And is it customary to pay for her or pay separately? Actually I kind of have a poll. Should I change the activity to bowling? or Miniature golfing is just as good? Any other dating ideas is fine.
Please and Thanks.
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The first date should be a meet and greet an opportunity to get to know one another. I have discovered that when you have too many activities though be it fun for the second or third date it distract in you getting to really know one another. I can assure you there are men who been dating for a year and may not know her favorite color, her favorite flower and her favorite quote. Honestly, just by knowing these few things you know a bit about how she feel about things in her life, is she deep in thinking or just looking for a good time. The meet and greet is like her telling you how to sweep her off her feet. Do something romantic instead of going to a crowded place where you can hardly hear each other from the noise. It is important to seek a place with ambiance, a beach, a pier, a five star hotel lobby and order coffee or tea and ask her is it okay to keep her warm by putting your arm around her. I assure you she will be taken back by your courteous but romantic gesture. Learn about this person then let your next date be a fun date. Oh and once you two have connected she do not care where you take her because you have tugged on her heart and women like that warm and fuzzy feeling no matter what age they are... Best to you...0