Do guys only date girls just for the sex
Most Helpful Guy
Truthfully, some do, yes. But mostly, such guys don't "date" girls at all - they just bang them and go on with their lives. Still, some WILL pretend to date a girl just to get sex.
The majority of the guys who DATE, though, are really looking for a relationship. Of COURSE they definitely want sex - that's a big part of the reason a guy wants a relationship - but they usually want the other parts too. Again, not every guy is GOOD at the other stuff (paying attention to her, spending time with her, etc.), but, yeah, they still enjoy doing those things at least some of the time.
What you need to realize is that EVERY guy who finds you attractive wants to have sex with you - this is true whether he wants a relationship or not. A big part of being male is wanting sex with attractive girls - it's just how we work. So you need to set sexual interest aside for the most part and focus on what ELSE - if anything - he's interested in.
USUALLY, if he just wants sex, then sex and sexual things are all he wants to talk about. Even when he brings up other subjects, they are always things that he believes will lead to sex. Being a guy, we can almost always tell if a guy who is hitting on a girl is just interested in sex or not, because it's usually obvious that sex is his only agenda.
(*Yes, there ARE a small percentage of skilled "players" out there who know how to talk girls out of their panties and making it seem like they want more, but really don't. There aren't that many of these guys, but it seems like there are a lot more of them because these guys are VERY social and tend to be at every party, every club, every bar, etc. because they live to pick up girls. They also tend to be attractive and charming - especially to the naive.)
A guy who wants a girlfriend and a relationship (but, yes, ALSO sex) will be interested in YOU, and what you do, what you think, and what you want. He'll ask questions and LISTEN to the answers. He'll share his own desires with you. He'll usually let you know he finds you attractive, but his every conversation won't be about getting you into bed.
If that's still too confusing for you, then here's a simple filter that will work 98% of the time: make it a rule (and stand behind it, no matter what!) that you don't have sex outside of a committed relationship. Make a guy make your relationship official, and even then, wait a bit before you have sex. Very, very few guys who just want sex will wait.0
Most Helpful Girl
Probably some do. But they're in the minority. Most want an actual companion.
Do girls date guys just for free meals? Probably some do. But again, not the majority. Most want an actual companion.0