So I know it really does come down to the individual but if you were to look at the big picture what's your personal opinion?
I ask this because I've been dating a man (45) and I'm much younger (19) he's a very attractive man and girls do tend to go after him. I occasionally introduce another female into our sex life for both our benefit and I've always trusted him. No questions asked but someone made a comment about how "all" older men cheat if they're into younger girls and it got me thinking.
I know it comes down to trust and I can be irrational sometimes (I have a lot to learn) but what are your thoughts?
Thank you loves,
please be open minded xx
Second I want to add that he spent a long time mentoring me before I made the move to make things more physical. He was teaching me about his business and giving me some very valuable skills in life. I fell for the fact he was able to mentally stimulate me. Thank you
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One of the things I learned as i got older was that, looks are secondary ot mind. Looks are important... BUT I wouldn't want to stay with a girl that couldn't mentally stimulate me.
If all our conversations devolve into frivolous chit chat and I don't see any progressive intent to develop herself or broaden her ideas. I don't see myself wanting to stay with that person.
I felt that way when i was younger also, i didn't really fully believe that girls are always more mature, definitely not the case. A lot of guys would just fuck a younger girl for her looks because she is hot but there's nothing there to keep them to stay. That's pretty standard and a lot of those girls get confused why he left.1
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