I met this girl got her number then she told me she wasn't interested by text then a week later she wanted to hang out and we had a lot of fun and today I saw her out (we have the same circle of friends) and she just acted like she didn't know me being cold and laughing with everyone and acted like I didn't exist...
im so confused what is going on?
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She told you she was not interested but then a week later she decided she had no better offers, so decided you would do. Now she has decided she does not need your company.
That is a slight variation of the same pattern and you are surprised?
Men, guys, you need to start having a little self respect and boundaries. If a woman tells you she is not interested but then decides a week later that she has nothing better to do and wants to have your company, tell her to find someone else to use.
At the very least, if you do decide to give her a chance, make her work for it and make her qualify why you should be spending your precious time with her.
How is anyone going to respect you if you allow others to use you?
That's how I see it anyway.