I recently found out on gag, that my guy is an omega guy.
He has no social skills and he doesn't know.
He is obsessed with star wars and builds his identity around it.
He can sometimes be really boastful to the point where you can't stand it.
I am not sure anyone really likes him and he doesn't care.
I don't know... when we first Started dating he was already talking about having a boy... and during our few days of talking... he kept on asking me to marry him.
I don't know if I missed all These signs because I was too excited that I was reconnecting with an old childhood friend. Now thinking about it, I totally would have been freaked out and left.
What about you? Would you date an omega guy or girl?
Most Helpful Guy
I have never heard of Omega male before now. I looked it up, and wow! I used to be one! In my 30 years of life I have known a ton of them (and I never liked them because they are annoying.) I can give a ton of insight into their minds I think because I used to be one!
So as a kid, I was not allowed to shower. We were extremely poor, and I wore the same clothes every single day. From grade 1 to grade 10 when I got a job and bought clothes and shit. So obviously, everyone hated that smelly dirty poor kid. I was very quiet and kept to myself until I was an adult.
When I went into the adult world (military lol) I was instantly hated. I had zero social skills, ZERO. Any time I talked to someone the shit just came out awfully. I became overly quiet because I recognized that I was incapable of normal social interaction. The difference between me and other Omega males, is that my childhood I was tormented endlessly, everyone hated me. I'm a big bastard, and I beat up just about every bully in my school, his older brother, and at 16 I was fighting adults. I wasn't mean, I was simply targeted for being different.
Anyways, these crazy "Omega" males grow up where people don't insult them enough for being how they are. They are shunned and cast aside, but they have a small circle of friends and they never make fun of eachother or ever be mean. That's how normal males teach eachother social skills, by making fun of them for doing stupid shit. I think "Omega" males are simply guys who had shitty childhoods, and were denied the ability to learn social skills by their peers because they were different for some reason and it just snowballed into this thing where nobody likes you.
As for me? Well, the military helped me break out of my shell a decent amount. But other "Omega" males I knew did not, and will not because they just don't get harassed badly enough for being that way. I separated, and got married! Being married taught me a ton. After 5 years we are split up, getting a divorce (she's abusive and i ended it if you wanted to know.) Now I'm mostly normal. I used to have extreme social anxiety, and talking to a cute girl was impossible. These days I have fun talking to everyone I meet and they always seem to like me instead of the hate I used to get. I talk to beautiful women all the time and its easy and fun and they seem to enjoy talking with me. I feel like I have a whole new life and it's amazing!
So the moral is... I guess "omegas" can change... sometimes.1
Most Helpful Girl
The alpha and omega shit is dumb.
Your boyfriend has issues if he's talking about marriage immediately. But just being shy and liking Star Wars doesn't make him an unworthy person. If you don't like guys like that don't lead them on. I find it shallow but whatevs1