Lately I've been spending more and more of my free time with my crush (yay), but I am quite insecure about myself and I've read that girls don't really like that, however I've been picking up some signs from her that she may like me. Now of course I've googled this, but apart from some nonverbal stuff like dilated pupils (which she has around me, could be a coincidence though) the articles I read didn't really contain much valuable information so I wanted to how you girls try to show a guy you like him.
Most Helpful Girl
Depending on the girl, is she shy or have some confidence?
Shy girls will avoid eye contact when talking to you but she will smile and laugh at anything you say. She will fidget and will be nervous around you as well as mumble.
Confident girls will use their body language such as leaning in or getting close to you, making eye contact and smiling
Across the spectrum though, ALL girls will show a lot of interest in what your interested in, they will try and find common ground, maybe try to impress you, they will laugh at most things you say, they will be around you and they will notice you first or stare at you when you walk into a room3
Most Helpful Guy
Here is a list that I got from Zozzita. https://www.girlsaskguys.com/user/zozzita
1- she flat out tells you
2-she'll like all your post on social media
3-she'll text back fast
4-she would want to hangout with you more
5-she's always talking about you/ or always laughs at your jokes. She'll even get really happy when she sees you.
6-she'll flirt with you
7- some would even tease you and get on your nerves
Now, that's just for some type of girls. They other type would be the shy/introverted girls (like myself) They're different.
1-they'll chuckle at your jokes
2-they'll quietly admire you from a distance
3-some will talk about you with their friends
4-get sweaty and nervous around you
5-stare deep into your soul like a crazy person (not joking, I did it once)
6-will stalk your social media
7-you wouldn't even know that I like you because I hide it. Shy girls tend to have an invisible mask that covers how they really feel about you. She they'll come off as aloof or uninterested. (Please, don't think of them as snobby or bitchy cuz they are not that at all!)
8-flirt unknowningly. Shy girls have a hard time picking up flirting signs and doesn't really know how to flirt.
Honestly I'm having the same problem trying to tell if my female freind that I'm flirting with likes me back. I just can't tell.
I would like to suggest that you watch her eat. If she eats slowly and nicely then she probably likes you. If she eats quickly and sloppily then she just thinks of you as a freind OR she just does not change that behavoir around you. Most women do change how they eat just around guys to an extent but some don't.
If you want to chat about her more follow me and I'll PM you. Maybe you can help me try to figure out if my crush likes me back. After you tell me more about the woman that you like.2