Im 23 years old and haven't had a proper relationship. I've been in serious dating situations but have ended them because it didn't seem right or i just didn't click with them anymore, or i was just too busy with work. So im still a virgin.
Im just more interested in reaching my goals in life and feel like being in a relationship that doesn't compliment me and what i want to achieve will hold me back.
Is this weird? Anyone else like this? Should i be considering a relationship?
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Most Helpful Guy
Do what you need to do to take care of yourself. Don't worry about being in a relationship if you don't want one.2
Most Helpful Girl
No not weird at all, personally I promote people to put themselves and their own goals first before relationships. Relationships should never be ones top priority in life unless you have kids with someone then family becomes your priority.
You don't have to consider a relationship, Im exactly the same as you and I usually don't get into a serious relationship if I feel like I don't click with the person well enough. I've been with some guys for over a year but nothing serious because I don't want to make it serious, since we just don't click in that kind of way and I really haven't got the time and effort for drama that serious relationships brings sometimes. Im in no hurry to have any serious relationship in my life right now either way.
Sure its easier to look for relationships when you're in your 20s and probably in the peak of your beauty but obviously you don't want that to matter the most in your relationship anyway and a lot of guys in their 20s care more about looks than when they get older so really its not that big of a deal if you're not interested in relationships at the moment.
If a person comes along that I get along with super well and I like then yeah maybe a serious relationship might happen but its not something Im focused on in my life right now at all and honestly it just makes life less stressing.2