Was wondering if girls are okay knowing that the guy they are seeing is dating multiple women-and I'm not saying men they are dating exclusively? I dated this dude recently that I met on Tinder, and I naively thought he was looking for a LTR. (He was dating multiple girls.) I know-should not have been on Tinder looking for a LTR. Any thoughts?
Most Helpful Guy
If it's early on then it's one thing because you can't really believe you're the only person a guy/girl is seeing if you met them online considering how many options people have.
Though recently there was a girl who was seeing that invited me to her place and her room on date 3 and prior to sex, I found an empty condom wrapper that wasn't mine on the bed. We may not have been exclusive but but I still felt shitty considering she led me on and invited me over only to ditch me afterwards even though I didn't say anything about the condom wrapper.1
Most Helpful Girl
I would not be too happy knowing that while dating. But I would rather for him to be honest than lie about. Obviously most women would NOT be happy about it. Plus he has to have legit reasons for doing that. Is he looking for a marriage partner by a certain age, or it is about scoring with many women as possible. Because marriage I can understand incase one would say no. But just to hit up multiple girls is a complete turn off. But the moment he knows who he wants to be with, the other girls needs to go. He shouldn't be strangling along all these girls including you. That's my opinion on it.1
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