To the point, my boyfriend of two years recently moved onto a new job. In his goodbye company card, his female coworker signed it friendlier than everyone else including hearts, and "don't leave me", "I'll miss you", "please call me" along with referring to my boyfriend and herself as mr and mrs.
I walked into this by reading the card, however i never look through his things and it was innocent
This, in addition to a couple other things (driving just her home from a work outing, privacy screen protector? has left me suspicious. Do I have a right to be suspicious? Am I being paranoid? Should I bother saying anything?
Thanks for the honest advice.
Most Helpful Guy
Yes you have every right to be suspicious.
He has no control of who likes him and you can not fault him for that, but he should not be giving her special treatment and or leading her on.
It is very possible that you boyfriend doesn't see her attraction and just looks at her like a friend. I have been told that girls a work hit on me, but I have never noticed.
However, he needs to make sure she know she is just his friend, that he is with you and that will not change, and he needs to reassure you of this. Girls can get a little crazy sometimes, but I still think it is the man's responsibility to make sure she knows that she is the only one in his life.0
Most Helpful Girl
I wouldn't assume he's cheating based on that alone, I'd only be concerned if his behaviour towards me had changed, and there was more signs something was going on.
She may have just got on really well with at work, and is going to genuinely miss him within the workplace. The" Mr. & Mrs. is a little strange , but it could just be some silly joke between them both at work. If you are starting to doubt him I'd speak to him about it.1