Is this a relationship killer? Is this a reason to break up with someone? I feel hugely disconnected from her right now.
Most Helpful Girl
If I said to my boyfriend... I'm more practical and live in the moment, I'd be kind of saying that I'm enjoying myself now at this moment but I know what I need to do and practical about it)
I'm 40 I'd say I sounded like your girlfriend at that age, if goals are massively important to you then you then that's great, but just because someone else doesn't have them in the same sense as you isn't a reason to break up... it sounds to me like could more than just that though?1
Most Helpful Guy
So what does she want to do with her time? If she is just confused about what to do with her life, that is fairly common, assuming she is in the first half of her twenties. If she is refusing to get off the sofa, that is a different matter I would consider worthy of investigating my options.0