I've been talking to this guy on and off for almost a year now. Two weeks ago we finally met up and hung out. We just walked the beach and talked. He ended up texting me that night saying how he really wanted to kiss me. And I told him that I enjoyed spending time with him but I'm not ready to do such things with someone since I gotten out of a sucky relationship two months before and I just wanted to be by myself and figure myself out and he told me that he understands. Me being my stupid self have been going on multiple dates and been talking to a few different people just to get myself back in the dating life without getting to serious with anyone.
however this weekend I invited him to spend the night and we were cuddling in my bed and we were making out and he was getting touchy feely and he ended up going down on me. We didn't have sex at all though. I was really in the mood and he was too but I just didn't feel anything with him. Like there wasn't any spark. Most of the time when I finally kiss a guy I get so many feelings for him and I want to be with them already but this guy I don't feel that way at all with.
I miss him I want to cuddle with him I want him near me but I don't want to really date him at all and I don't know why. He's good looking he's a sweetheart he's patient with me I can always make him laugh he gives me forehead kisses which my ex never gave me he tells me how beautiful I am all the time he likes to cuddle and is 100% okay with being the big spoon. He's perfect but I don't feel anything and I don't know why. Will I eventually feel something if I continue talking to him? I don't want to play him or hurt him. I want to just be able to date around and see what's out there before settling down.
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You like him emotionally, yet you're not attracted to him. I am not sure if this could actually work.0