So I have a thing with a guy. We're kind of hooking, but I'm afraid I've started develop feelings for him, and I'm not sure if he only wants sex or if he may be interested in me, because he has said before that he don't want anything serious, but more like a friends with benefits thing. So we're texting all the time about almost everything, but we also do some sexting. So I got upset about something he did, and sent a really mean text to him and called him really bad things, it was a really stupid thing to do, and I overreacted and I regret it. So we were arguing, but it seems like no matter what I write to him, he doesn't get mad and never says anything mean back. We've had some fights before and we always finish the fights and stay friends. He still talks to me and almost always reply within a few minutes when I send him texts. Do you think he's interested? Would guys who only want sex text the girl all the time and accept her drama?
Most Helpful Guy
Because he only wants sex.0
Most Helpful Girl
If you start a purely sexual relationship, it is RARE that it will flower into anything more, especially if he shows no emotional investment from the beginning and no concern at the prospect of you two arguing and splitting.
Based on your response, I'm going to say he isn't interested. He isn't stirred by the drama because he doesn't care what happens: he's not invested, so why would he be offended if his (pardon mon francais) pussy throws a fit? It's just a hookup, not a relationship, if things go sour it's "Oh well, onto the next."0