- I would NOT Pursue her50%(5)58%(28)Vote61%(23)
- I WOULD Pursue her30%(3)33%(16)Vote34%(13)
- Explain Below20%(2)9%(4)Vote5%(2)
No, probably not, if it was an actual friend (not just an acquaintance) and especially if they had a relationship. It just makes things awkward. I'd have to like her enough to be willing to risk my friendship.
I have been in the situation before, and I declined to pursue, even though I wanted to.
I'm assuming "slept" as in they aren't sleeping anymore. It was a one time fling and they don't sleep together anymore... Well hell yeah I'd go for her. I'd congratulate my friend. Ask him how it has, etc.
No way, too weird. I won't mess around with anyone who my friends have been with. It's like they're in the room with you too. Then there's always that awkwardness when the three of you are hanging out together.
It would depend on a loy of factors. How sexually attracted she to women, how likely is she to abstain from men in the future, how badly will your male friend be hurt.
Ideally, she's strongly attracted to you, doesn't really like sex with men but did a "one off" and the male friend was just having a casual one night stand.
Usually no!! But currently I'm in that situation sort of!! And yeah I'm still pursuing her.
I probably wouldn't pursue her.
So your saying they slept together way before I even knew she existed? Then yes I would pursue her. No rules broken there
Bros before hoes
Hmm if i liked her then sure... but i would be very apprehensive.
That wouldn't usually happen no.
Not even with his express permission.
As long as they're okay with it.
I would decide based on the circumstances of how they slept together.
All of my interest in her would instantly fade.
Depends on how much I liked her. If she was an ex, then hell no
Depends how well I've gotten to know her.
Also were they dating, or they just fucked? I never dated any exes of friends, but I know some who did, if things ended on decent terms, it can happen.
If they just fucked, its slightly awkward, beyond that, i'd start fucking then move to relationship, if she wanted to wait till we were serious when she fucked him, uh, no.
NO SLOPPY SECONDS FOR ME!