Just interested in your answers and experiences. I've only had about 3 dates over the last 2 years (I really cannot be bothered talking women anymore , bit of introvert and shy) don't consider myself bad looking (but ain't no Brad Pitt either ). It seems that girls just hhave to sit there and pick from the flock.
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Most Helpful Girl
Women have it easier. But finding true love can be hard for anyone.15
Most Helpful Guy
Women do. There is no burden on them to approach. Women send signals to get approached, and pick and choose the options that come to them.
The main disadvantage that women have when it comes to dating... is the burden of choice. Because unless she was raped, she has ALL THE FINAL SAY on any dating or sexual progression of the arrangement... and most importantly, the guy she does all the above with.
So if the woman gets with the wrong man, it is ALL HER FAULT because she CHOSE him out of all the options. Any negative outcome of that arrangement is all on her, because she rejected other men to have that one, and she fucked up and has to burden that blame of a bad choice.
With a man, since we have to pursue and be accepted or rejected, the "I got the best I could" type of reasoning can be used.3