My 20 years old girlfriend is always asking me if she is fat. She is not! But yesterday I was so tired of her asking me that I told her that she could try to loose some weight so she got obsessed with that.
She asked me again and again if she was fat and then she cried like a baby. She locked herself in the room and cried.
Now she hates me but i did not mean to call her fat because she is not. She is always doing diets and she is probably about 97 pounds. I told her that men do not like super skinny girls so she also took that as me calling her fat.
Most Helpful Girl
Haha so this is a losing argument. It seems like she is very insecure with her looks and needs some reassurance you find her attractive. I understand your frustration with being asked the same question and have no advice on how to stop her asking, but definitely think saying she could lose some made the situation worse1
Most Helpful Guy
it sounds to me like your girlfriend probably suffers from body dysmorphia. it means that in order to be with her you are going to have to be patient and NEVER suggest certain things (like she is fat, needs to diet, exercise) because that will trigger a very serious emotional response.0