I still love my boyfriend but I'm getting worried because I might be developing feelings for someone I never even spoke to. Help.
Most Helpful Guy
Dating or boyfriend, which is it? If you're just dating nothing to worry about, just be honest with him if he asks or wants to become more serious with you that your unsure. If he's your boyfriend, that's a bit more complicated and depending how long you've been together. Maybe you should speak to this other guy and figure out if you do have feelings or not. What's causing these feelings if you've never spoke to him? Maybe you don't "love" your boyfriend as much as you think you do? Seriously, not trying to be insulting. Just saying you need to really think about and examine your feelings and what you want.0
Most Helpful Girl
Its normal for many people regardless of age. If you've never talked to this other guy, You have a crush on him because you find him aesthetically pleasing to the eye, there's nothing else there. So your lusting after him, but you love your boyfriend. Don't confuse those two. It doesn't mean that you should dump your boyfriend for some good looking stranger. So no, its not bad as long as you don't act on it. People can admire each other without wanting to go out with them. or jump into bed with them.0