One thing I don't understand is that if you like someone a lot early on and feel a strong connection, it seems like it's more of a bad thing than a good thing. Why is that?
And by like i mean literally like, not love. I mean it doesn't happen to me that often but if someone blows you away and you like them, why should you feel bad about it and have to repress it?
I mean you don't have to act overzealous about it and tell someone you like them repeatedly. But it seems like a mind game where if we like someone naturally, the other person is automatically in power, might pick up on it and then go the other way.
I just never understood it.
Most Helpful Guy
I know what you mean, it's like you can't show it or they think you're annoying or clingy and now they have the power and then you lose them, it's like a game, so I try not to act like that when I really like them by not talking to much and keep a mystery about me to keep them wondering1
- Show AllShow Less