I really like this guy that I'm friends with. I can't get over him though, and I think the only way to get over him is to be rejected by him. I want to be friends with him still. Would it be weird to just tell him that I have feelings for him and that I need him to reject me so I could get over him?
Would it be weird if I asked a guy to reject me?
What Guys Said 5
Asking for his rejection still puts you in control, which isn't true rejection. I'd think this wouldn't work because in true rejection, there is a sense of despair, which is what forces us to accept it and heal. This probably woudn't give you that sense of despair or the healing you seek1
Yeah that is lol0
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