Since middle school, men have been either treating men badly or being obsessed with me. When I was in middle school men would ask me about sex all the time and ask me to give them blowjobs. It's still happens. Men will try and be nice and push theirsef on me. If they don't treat me bad then they're obsessed with me and won't leave me alone. Something like they own me. None of my friends ever had this treatment. I mean yeah some attract assholes, but not me. I'm. 24 years old now, and men still want to talk to me about sex. Not all, but like 85 percent of them. Recently I been getting slot of friend requests on Facebook. I gained over 400 requests in like 4 days. It's still the same treatment. I just ignore them. One guy asked me if I can be his sugar baby and I said no,. He called me a whore, and said it doesn't matter because I own women like you in the streets and that he can sell me over and over again.
Then when men are mean on Facebook: some men will make fake accounts and harrass me on it. Once I got asked if I was a transsexual. It was a troll/fake account. He had like 45 friends, Then other times it's just constant messaging being pervy.
I don't get this because I don't sleep around.
I was with my best friend once, in the city. I use to always complain to her about this and how bad it made me felt. She told me that men always smile in a creepy way with me. (Mainly men who are 40 above), and then the young ones are just obnoxious. Having this treatment has made me paranoid about my appearance. Also about vibes I give off. It makes me feel really shitty. It truly makes me dislike myself.
Most Helpful Guy
Just deny, deny, and deny all these horrible guys. They're just horrible guys in general, it doesn't reflect you at all. As much as it makes me seen like a cornball to say, your good guy is out there.0
Most Helpful Girl
Well to stop the online harassment make an account which is unknown and only close family and friends know about it. If you get random people adding you again then just give up on social media cause you don't need it if you have a phone which you can call family and friends on. Now for face to face harassment I'm not sure what you could do. Easiest thing to do is just ignore them. But remember you should never put yourself down because of other people. You are a beautiful person and you shouldn't let people get to you. Stay strong I know you can get through this. If it's gets worse you could get police to check out your situation but I'm not to sure about what they could do to help. Just try to remember you have people who love you for you and you are a great person don't hate yourself because of things which you may not be able to control. Just concentrate on those who care about you because they are the important people who are there to support you.0