Been talking to a guy who I met on a dating website for a month now, he's quite busy but always makes time to call me on his lunch break or on his way home from work and he texts when he can. Everything seemed normal went on a date and he continued the messaging so thought he was keen like I was but I haven't heard from him in a couple of days. I always feel like I annoy people when I message them the last text I sent was a have a good day text 2 days ago. I Font want to blow his phone up and don't really text someone unless they respond. I feel as if he has lost interest to be fair I'm an anxious person who overthinks most things but I'm not sure if I'm being stupid about this. I mean he could just be super busy he runs his own business and works long hours and a lot of stuff is going on with his family. My question is how long should I give him the benefit of the doubt about being busy before I do write him off as losing interest?
Most Helpful Guy
I don't know it depends on the situation , sometimes you don't see someone for long periods of time but there still interested , other times not hearing from someone for a couple weeks is a clue there not interested back1
Most Helpful Girl
nope it's not him being busy.
No guy is too busy to phone a girl he's interested in.
Maybe he wants you to take initiative and text him first?
Either he wants you to text him first or he found someone better.
Just send him a text and see if he texts back.
One text isn't going to do any harm. if he's interested he probably is waiting for you to text him too...
If he doesn't reply, you know the answer. his lost.1