So they always say you have to be single and find yourself and not to rely on anyone else. Well I feel like sometimes it does take another human being to bring the "you" out of you. Right away people will think you're being influenced by that person but what if they're just finally feeling good about opening themselves up? Like a simple example would be getting a piercing or tattoo. What if you've been wanting to get one but just never had the balls too. Then you met someone who was more confident and made you get one, not forced but they made you be in touch with yourself more and overall more comfortable. So you get a piercing or a tattoo. Im sure majority will think you're being influenced and most likely in a bad way like you're not being yourself when really you are; they just brought it out of you. It took someone else to have you find yourself. What do you think? Share if you have personal experiences with this.