I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. He lost his job a year ago and he hasn't made any efforts to made another job. I was supportive in the beginning but it's been a year and he hasn't made any effort to made another job. All I see him doing is selling junk on eBay and Craigslist for money.
He is 35 and lives with his parents so he doesn't have any expenses. Everything else, I'm covering. I'm getting extremely frustrated and resentful. It would be a different story if he was actually trying and unable to find a job. But he's not trying.
Am I wrong to be frustrated? I feel like we can't move forward and get a place and get married and stuff because he isn't financially steady. And I'm certainly not able to support both of us on my salary alone.
I dont know. Help please
Most Helpful Guy
Nope not wrong. he's a lazy bum.1
Most Helpful Girl
You are not wrong for being frustrated. Both partners should contribute and if you want to get married then that also means both partners should help with finances.1