I've been dating this guy for around about 5 weeks, we are now exclusive as of nearly a week ago, however I recently got a message from a girl to say that he was sleeping with her 2 and a half weeks ago, I had not slept with him by this point, and in the grand schemes of things this has all happened very fast. But 2 and a half weeks ago I had only just had my 3rd date with him, after that he cut the girl off, should I be mad? I'm mad he's lied to me, but then I think realistically I didn't need to know, but I've had my trust knocked a few times in different relationships and he's not a bad guy he's so lovely, but I don't know how to move past this?
Most Helpful Guy
It sounds to me like he was dating like many do. Exploring different options and seeing which one suited him best. Whatever pace he was on with the other woman has nothing so much to do with you as it had to do with them. That he lied to you may be a concern, but that depends on whether you painted him into a corner by asking, or whether he volunteered the false information. Whatever the case, apparently you did something that unseated a guy from someone who was giving him sex, and did it without having sex. Sounds like you won out.0
Most Helpful Girl
I get you. It's not that you're angry because he slept with somebody after your third date, as you were nothing, it's the fact he could lie about it.
In my experience, every single friend who has had this situation (it's a very common one) has not worked out well.
There's different types of men. One type will sleep with girls or date multiple girls and not tell any of them, another type will only date one at a time, another type will be up front and say "it's only our 1st/2nd date, so I am seeing where things go and keeping options open, making sure you know.0
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