I previously posted a question about asking someone out, and I've decided to ask them out today in the way I've been suggested by you men (thanks for your help btw). However, my best friend since Kindergarten doesn't think I should do it and is convinced he only thinks of me as a friend despite everything I've told her about him and me. She really believes that I'm making a mistake and that I'll just make a fool out of myself. I've been pretty confident about this, but I don't know now... I don't want to be rejected and humiliated. I'm also suddenly anxious about asking him out because my friend warned me about this jerk I was close with before and I didn't listen. I don't want this to be like an "i told you so" situation again, or else I feel like it will affect her and my friendship. Yet, I don't want to do nothing and wait for something to happen with this guy. Also, at the moment, I feel like he thinks I'm not interested in him because he always asks me to "come over" to his workplace or house and I always decline - only because it's always a bad time. I want to ask him out... But what if my best friend is right? I don't know what to do.
- Listen to your bestie; don't ask this guy out20%(2)37%(7)Vote56%(5)
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Always listen to your gut on matters of the heart :)1
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If you never ask you'll never know1