I'm a huge hopeless romantic and I'm completely and utterly single. In school, couples are literally suffocating me and my friends have gotten into relationships, and I've wanted a relationship for a long time now. Today I just watched this cute couple who sits near me for half the lunch period because I was so jealous.
So, how do you deal with being single? And how do you stop being single? Advice?
Most Helpful Guy
Okay truthfully 90% of high school relationships don't go anywhere, another words don't get jealous of the couples around you. Their experiencing puppy love.
You need to get involved with hobbies. Focus on your academics, prepare for college. Another thing, if you play an instrument or in art or etc... become the best at it then apply for scholarships you will go far.
One more thing begin a diary write your thoughts, ideas on a paper. You will look back a year or two from now and see how much you matured.2
Most Helpful Girl
Trust me, I'm going through the exact same thing! Been there done that and doing it now! It's really tough on your self esteem because you're left alone thinking "well, am I just not good enough?" That's not the case! In our current society people will date whether they truly like the person or not just to show that they aren't single. Most relationships don't have deeper meanings! Yes, people will hold hands and kiss because they think that's what they're supposed to do, but there's usually nothing much deeper behind it. People like you and me take relationships more seriously and we're naturally more conserved, so it's harder for us to find someone and vice versa. It doesn't mean that we're unlovable or anything!! We're just taking our time in finding the right one! You're perfectly fine! You're also not the only one going through this same exact thing! There's so many people around you in the exact same position and feeling the exact same way! You're not alone! So don't feel badly about it, you just have more respect for yourself by not throwing yourself from relationship to relationship :)3