I've been seeing a guy for a couple of months and while we're together he seems like he's crazy about me and talks about things we'll do months away, but, while he will text me all day, he has flaked out on plans with me multiple times and chooses hanging out with other people (going out partying with the guys) over me.
I've tried to let him go and move on but each time I try, and I mean go even two days without texting him, he freaks out and will immediately set aside hours (literally hours) to talk with me about how he loves spending time with me, how much he likes me, and doesn't want us to end... He tells me he'll put in more effort and pleads with me not to be mad with him...
But then, it goes back to how it was. I feel like he's taking me for granted and we're not even dating yet. What should I do?
Most Helpful Guy
How many times are you going to keep being stupid and taking him back. His words are lies. Actions always speak the truth. If you haven't learned already it won't change so you have a decision0
Most Helpful Girl
If he can't value you when you're around, do you really believe you need him? There's a difference between someone who talks to you in their free time and someone who makes time for you. He isn't worth it, he just doesn't want to lose you but he doesn't want to put the effort either. Not worth it.0