But how many other girls out there my age have never had a boyfriend? Hardly any.
Says who lol? You realize that in your city Aline, there's probably thousands of girls who have never had a boyfriend right? You need to get out of the house waaay more dude
ur generation are fucking weird, a lot have not.
But how am I going to find another girl that has never had a bf?
You've made your standards. So deal with it. If that means you're single for the rest of your life then accept that and just be single. Having high standards means being okay if no one lives up to them. So... not my problem or anyone else's that they don't meet your standards.
What if you could be someones first AND last? That is better than just last. A first will always be a first. But you can never guarentee to be the last. Only by natural death can someone be the last. What if one's life was extended to 200 years. Who is to say a woman would be with that same guy?
While that is an ideal sentiment, that is not usually how the world works. If you're spending all your efforts trying to find a girl that you like AND where you can be her first boyfriend, you might never truly find love. It's always possible, but you're setting yourself up for constant misery. Trust me - I've been someone's first AND last (so far... he hasn't dated anyone else since we broke up 6 years ago) and it really didn't feel that special.
But see, you are with your first. It is a sweet story I feel I can never have
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I have messaged her for a few months.But how am I going to find another pretty girl that has never had a boyfriend before?
why do you want a girl that has never had a boyfriend?
Because of the hypothetical situation of "what if a girl could get back with her first love and be just as happy if not happier"? First loves are sweet and special.
so if a girl has had a boyfriend you won't date her?
Because a first love is special. There is a longer explanation behind it. It is hard to explain.
How else am I going to find a girl that has never had a boyfriend before?
Obviously she isn't interested, so the sooner you get over her, the sooner you can look again.
But still, how am I going to find a pretty girl who has never had a boyfriend before.There is @cheergirl38139 but she doesn't like me.
You're not very old, it's not that unusual. Frankly, though, if you keep trying to force girls to be with you it's going to end badly. Why are you tagging a girl who doesn't like you?
He will NEVER stop. This is his life long obsession to find a girl that's "never loved before".
Obsession isn't healthy, OP.
Well that is important to me
It's not just "important" to you creeper.It's all you obsess about
Yes i did
Have you had one before?
Another account? Haha I won't get started on that one.
Figured. This is a weird topic to bring up on a site if you're not familiar with it at least a little. Anyways, from those messages I can't assume she has a boyfriend. Only that she likes a different guy. Doesn't mean they're dating yet.
But she said she has been talking to him for a few MONTHS
This guy is aka the "virgin hunter," so he has made a 100+ accounts and been banned more times than probably anyone on the site.
@dangerDoge I feel like I've seen posts like this before and I was wondering if they were related. Guess so.
Yeah, there have been a lot of posts about the obsession of "being someone's first." (Most notably the one about keeping mementos of blood-stained sheets or whatever from a night of sex with a 16 year old girl he lost his virginity to.) Many girls have been resultingly pretty severely harassed from this obsession on here.
@dangerDoge eeeeeeeew tmi XDIt's one thing to want to be each other's firsts, but to want to be the first for many girls is gross.
Yeah, she has the patience of Mother fuckin' Teresa...
I am. Dont be so damn mean about it... because i am struggling right now
You don't want me to be mean? Stop acting like a fucktard and tagging me. You know your brain is warped man. You need help. You better get it before you end up doing something REALLY stupid.
I see a psychiatrist.And such coarse language
You need a psychologist. Do you know the difference?
Yes I know the difference. I am in paramedic school right now. Of course I know.
Well genius, then you would know that just getting meds from the one doesn't substitute for getting therapy from the other now shouldn't ya?
Are you the reason why I am not getting called into work?
You don't beg and plead with some girl you've never been with, or in general.You're just digging a deeper hole, and then you seriously just went 'this always happens my lifes troubles blahblahblah"?https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2k0SmqbBIpQWhen she said "i have a boyfriend and dont want to be friends" thats a pretty clear indicator she doesn't want to hear a word from you. You can't pester someone into liking you, ya suck it up and move on.
How many girls my age have never had a boyfriend tho?
Who cares don't get hung up bruh, suck it up and March on to the next chick. Trust me I get turned away all the time and I used to let it bother me but now I could care less. The faster you move on to the next the faster you find the right girl and if she was the right girl she would like you back. Don't waste your time getting upset and speculating just fill it up by moving on.