I wanted to be her first boyfriend 😢😢
Most Helpful Girl
She is being remarkably clear. You're bordering on harassment. Stop it.
She isn't interested in you. So shut up about it and move on. She can't spell it out clearer. The only thing she can do now is block you and if you persist, she can take legal action. THAT'S where you're headed if you continue to message her begging for romantic attention and having a pity party for yourself.
Buck up, get a hold of yourself, and get over it.2
Most Helpful Guy
i want to support u in this... but, u are just over the top. while girls say no and do other things all the time. u have to do along with their wishes and allow them to play their games. but this does not seem like one of those moments. it seems like its been a short encounter and she may have never given u any glimer of hope. being a girls first boyfriend means nothing. girls will a lot of times bond with the guy they first have sex with. but that is NOT always their first boyfriends. so dont get the two confused. and ur generation is fucking weird anyway, plenty of them dont do anything but cuddle. there is research to show this. as i said they are fucking weird. so ur dream of first boyfriend isn't that hard to pull off. ur also young. its not unreasonable for u to date someone a few years younger than u easily with out any questions being asked at all. also heavily increasing ur odds of this dream u want.
long story short, just get out there and jsut keep ur eyes open and try to be u. do as this girl told u and use that to find the next girl. maybe u will have better luck with her. being the best boyfriend possible will make u the boyfriend girls thing of instead of OTHERS!!! girls only thing of other bfs when u suck. remember that. so if u are awesome and u rock in bed, there will be no reason for a chick to think of her other bfs for any reason!!! even if she has had 100 bfs0